Want the results, care abour them, believe in them with all your heArt, show up with all you’ve got to work for them. But release the fkn pressure valve that has you palpitating in a cold sweat every time you think about them.
When it comes to love and art… Desperation is not the vibe. Rushing into a relationship or project or strategy *from pressure, scarcity, fear* rather than inspired aliveness is not the vibe. Creating what the masses want you to create instead of creating what is alive in you to create is not the vibe.
For some people this looks like not changing anything material but rather doing energetic & embodiment work so they can learn how to hold all they’re doing without the added pressure. For others this looks like doing something(s) practical that take the pressure off of their business working in a specific way or on a specific timeline… so that they can build their capacity and skillset to create and hold more.
I’ve had early entrepreneur clients stay in their corporate job, do a side hustle, move back in with their parents, sell things they own and go on a shoestring budget, rack up *intentional* debt *with certainty they’ll someday repay it from overflow*, and many other ways of creating space for their business to grow at its own organic pace.
The ironic (but also makes perfect sense) part is… the ones who committed to doing what they needed to take the pressure off *while deciding their business is going to work no matter what* are the ones who have grown the quickest and who have sustained their growth the longest.
And some of my more seasoned entrepreneur clients who hold the most have done the work to release pressure and hold it all lightly.
The right kind/amount of pressure for the right kind/amount of material creates diamonds. 💎
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