Messaging and marketing will only take you as far as you can take it. No matter how strategic you get with what you want to be seen/known for, you won’t ever outrun your embodiment.

How seen you are in your closest relationships creates your energetic threshold for and your embodied relationship with being seen in your work.

If you are creating content / offerings / your work in the world from a place of codependent half truths, from trying-not-to-trigger-them, from shame keeping you locked in a Good Girl way of saying the thing that you actually think about differently, hiding the parts of you that you are unconsciously certain would make love go away, trying to become who you think they would buy from instead of Being who you truly are… manipulating and molding your Self so you don’t have to feel the discomfort of rejection or projection…

Well, we actually are seeing you. The watered down you that you are bringing… that doesn’t foster trust or draw us in for more.

And I can guarantee that whatever patterns you are playing out in your content… you are playing out in your relationships.

And.

Your intimate relationships are the most potent and mature space to shift those patterns.

Not with strangers on the internet that you hope will become clients… with humans that you are positioning yourself to lead, that you want to pay you money for your leadership.

^^^so many internet “leaders” are doing this. Unconsciously trying to work out their wounding through their business then wondering why their business is getting wounded results yikes.

And the true solvent for this is actually… doing the work to shift your patterns in intimate relationship, so that you become the embodiment of Visibility that organically draws in more eyes. Letting smart strategy for messaging and marketing amplify what’s true 🪞

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